Oh you heartbreak!

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Heartbreaks..nobody wants to talk about this one emotion which at some point of time all of us have been through. They do tear you apart and well we have seen enough of movies starting from Hollywood to Sandalwood (what's with the woods though? Like, seriously?!) which have done their share of projecting what it is like. But just watching your favorite actors going through a heartbreak on screen will probably make you sad, bring a tear in your eye and that lasts for maybe 5 minutes because in the end it always is 'Happily ever after'. Reality isn't the same..is it?

I have huge respect and admiration for all those souls who survived heartbreaks, mend them for more heartbreaks and who do fight for survival. A person who is physically injured, gets all sympathy from everyone around and everyone understands his or her mood swings and tantrums. But the ones who are going through a heartbreak- boy! you need to put up a strong face, smile as ever while inside your head and heart you are dying multiple times. I am sure this makes sense to all those survivors out there who are reading this.

So, to the ones who have survived heartbreaks- You are amazing! for the ones who are just mending heartbreaks- you will get used to it. You would have heard everyone tell you, Time heals everything. Trust me, what they mean is that- you will learn to survive with your broken heart. But while you do that, always remember to never lose Hope! That's all that runs our human race, no matter what happens.

Oh you Heartbreak- thank you, for making many of us stronger, making us understand what truly we are made of! You are life's best ever teacher and I am indebted to you forever!

VIVE!
Me Myself :)

Comments

  1. K=M*V*V11 November 2016 at 09:58

    Hope indeed... The single culprit that makes one run towards inevitable doom till the "Inevitable becomes Evitable" or/aka "the Impossible becomes Possible"... :|

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    1. Vimala Viswanathan 11 November 2016 at 10:29

      And I just repeat what I told you already. Stop being the optimistic pessimist!

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